| Birth | about 1660 23 20 |
| Marriage | Nathaniel Thayer — View this family yes |
| Death of a paternal grandfather | John Hayden July 26, 1682 (Age 22 years) |
| Death of a mother | Hannah Ames about 1689 (Age 29 years) |
| Death of a father | John Hayden about 1695 (Age 35 years) |
| Birth of a daughter #1 | Deborah Thayer about 1702 (Age 42 years) |
| Death of a husband | Nathaniel Thayer about 1728 (Age 68 years) |
| Death of a daughter | Deborah Thayer about 1760 (on the date of death) |
| Death | about 1760 (Age 100 years) |